A wardrobe edit, with The Wardrober

Personal styling - a wardrobe edit

You may assume, that from all the recent posting to my Instagram feed of my outfits, that I am particularly confident and happy with my style and clothes. You would actually be very much mistaken though. Because, even though I have found an absolute love for everything style once more, (and am starting to find my way again), I still feel as though I have no idea what to wear from my wardrobe.

This was not the story 5 years ago. I’d stride into work every day – high heels, suit and sleek hair. I had a wardrobe bursting with clothes and I absolutely loved shopping; it was a huge part of my life and took up a lot of my salary. But two kids, a home and a job working from home later…and I feel, well, a little lost when it comes to style.

I am now stuck in a massive style rut and have had no idea where to turn. Here have been my main problems:

  • I gave birth to twins and my shape has changed.
  • I haven’t had the cash to be able to update my wardrobe with the latest trends and fashions. I want to spend any extra money on the children.
  • I need to be dressed practical most days.
  • Some days I only leave the house to do the school run. I work from home and it is TOO easy to be causal.
  • I love grey.
  • I am 37 (and therefore not 20).
  • I don’t want to look like I am trying too hard (i.e. mutton).

Step in Lisa, from The Wardrober (phew!).

Lisa, who started her own business, The Wardrober, is a qualified personal stylist, shopper & colour consultant. She has worked in fashion for over 15 years, in both London & New York, gaining experience in buying, sales and styling with all kinds of brands, such as Donna Karen, Oasis, Wallis, Mothercare and QVC. She is also a Mummy to two beautiful little boys and therefore totally ‘gets’ where I am coming from – in fact, a lot of her clients are Mums.

First we started with colour; Lisa held some swatches to my skin. She concluded that I was Autumn and that I should seek out such colours – i.e. warmer tones such as teal, burgundy, navy etc. She gave me a handy little swatch of colours which I can carry in my handbag when shopping. It is good to know this because some colours can ‘wash you out’ or help you to project a certain image.

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Then we went through my wardrobe and I tried on clothes that I wasn’t sure about; Lisa told me whether I suited the item or not. We threw a few things into a ‘no’ pile (wrong colours or shapes etc) but we did keep a lot of my clothes which really surprised me…as I thought my whole wardrobe was awful!

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Sorting clothes to keep

One thing I did learn on the day was that I have a lot of tops and hardly any bottoms – I think that is why I have been struggling so much with finding outfits to wear. I have a few pairs of skinny jeans and yet hardly any trousers or skirts. I therefore definitely need to shop for some more basic items in order to make it into more of a capsule wardrobe (such as black jeans, black trousers, skirts etc). Then I can wear my tops and mix & match them with different looks.

Then she put a few items of my wardrobe together to make outfits! Here are a couple below:

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The most important aspect about seeing Lisa is that she has given me back a lot of confidence. After she left I was bursting to wear new things and I felt good about myself. It’s so easy to get stuck in a rut with clothes and not experiment with new outfits but this has boosted my self-esteem. I am also definitely going to shop smarter now and look out for key trends and stay in fashion.

After chatting to Lisa about where to shop I am going to try different brands too; I will aim to get some key pieces from more luxury brands. I can’t wait to try some new styles!

If you’re interested in personal styling then Lisa charges from £150 for a wardrobe edit. She also offers personal shopping, as well as other services. You can find more on her website, as well as on Instagram and Facebook.

Love, Jess x



  1. December 14, 2016 / 12:39 pm

    I have been loving your feed lately – you are looking fab! I have totally lost my way with fashion at the moment (I am 9 months pregnant!), like you it used to be such a big part of my life!! I am determined to get back on track in the new year!

    • Jess
      December 15, 2016 / 2:21 pm

      Ahh you do have good reason! It took me a few years to get back into fashion but now it’s nice to be able to shop again for myself xx

  2. December 14, 2016 / 3:49 pm

    This sounds like a lot of fun Jess, and so useful. Definitely knowing what colours suit you. I look forward to seeing some of your new outfits and pieces on Instagram xx

    • Jess
      December 15, 2016 / 2:20 pm

      Thanks lovely! It’s given me such a boost 🙂 xx

    • Jess
      December 15, 2016 / 2:18 pm

      You always look fab! I really enjoyed it 🙂 Feel excited for shopping too now xx

  3. December 15, 2016 / 10:37 pm

    I would love someone to come and do this with my wardrobe. It’s crammed full and I probably wear about a quarter of it. I never seem to have the time to figure out what goes together so end up wearing the same old thing! xx

    • Jess
      December 16, 2016 / 8:31 am

      Oh yes I have been doing that for SO long. Gets you down doesn’t it? This was good because it really made me think about the clothes I already own and wearing them in a different way! 🙂 p.s. You always look lovely xx

  4. December 20, 2016 / 6:35 pm

    I definitely need her to come to my house! Love the idea of a colour swatch- I never know what colours are best. x

    • Jess
      January 4, 2017 / 7:23 pm

      It was so fascinating and liberating too! Loved it xx

  5. January 16, 2017 / 1:12 pm

    Oo I love fashion too but the past few years I think I’ve become quite good at getting rid of the things that don’t work anymore – mainly due to moving house and having to find storage space for all my things!! I’d love someone to come and make outfits out of the clothes I already own, fab idea. x

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